

They knew when I graduated college, when I got a new job, when I had a trip planned with my mother, when I wasn’t feeling well, when I was discouraged or inspired. Not only do I know a lot about them, but they know a lot about me.
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It’s really not their job to listen to hours of complaining about your job, your wife, your weight, your mistress, your boss, or your mistress who is your boss.ĭo ask your bartender: “And what about you?” This is your happy place.ĭon’t act like it’s all about “me, me, me, me”īartenders are prepared to be two-bit therapists, but don’t go overboard. Hopefully, you’re a regular because you like bars and people-watching. No bartender wants to look over their shoulder during a rush and feel like they’re neglecting you. One of a regular’s most important qualities is looking at the staff, knowing they’re busy and being completely content with the company of a beer and steak. Don’t cut them off from talking to another person don’t scream your order at them and walk away. They’re making drinks, taking orders, closing tabs and doing floor service all at the same time. Your bartender has a constant to do list in their minds. Chances are, they think they make the best version of their favourite, and they can’t wait to share it with you.ĭon’t wave money, yell drink orders or interrupt Plus, they get to make their favourite drink. But this way, whether you know what you’re getting or not, the bartender doesn’t have to think too much about what to make you. You still shouldn’t be too picky about what liquor you end up with. This advertisement has not loaded yet, but your article continues below. Manage Print Subscription / Tax Receipt.
